Should my Partner Choose her own Engagement Ring?
If you’re planning on proposing to your partner, you may be wondering whether you should take them with you to look for an engagement ring together.
Many men are against taking their girlfriends ring shopping due to tradition, though others decide against common practice and bring a modern twist to their proposal. We’ve compiled a list of advantages and disadvantages to help you decide whether you should let your partner choose their own engagement ring.
Advantages
She’ll love the ring- Allowing your partner to choose her own engagement ring will instantaneously mean that she will love the ring. Your partner may want to choose a ring that is ready set, or she may want to choose the setting and diamond individually.
Less stress for you- Having your partner choose her own engagement ring will make the shopping experience a lot less stressful for you. You won’t need to worry about buying a ring she doesn’t like and can be rest assured she will be grateful for including her in the process.
Big Step- If you and your partner are deciding to choose an engagement ring together, and thus spend the rest of your lives with one another, it is a big step in any relationship. Your partner is bound to be elated that you want to get married, and more than happy to help choose a ring.
Disadvantages
Unromantic- Asking your partner to pick out her own engagement ring could be unromantic for her. Your partner could be waiting for the surprise of a life time, which could be ruined in an instant. Ensure you find out more about your partners expectations regarding a proposal.
No Surprise- Along with the lack of romance, your partner may be upset at the lack of surprise proposal if she is asked to pick out her own engagement ring. However, the element of surprise is more important to some people than others, so it’s important to discover what your partner wants.
Budget- Allowing your partner to pick out her own engagement ring might mean you end up spending more than your initial budget. If you have a tight budget and still want her to have an input, tell her beforehand, or go window shopping to see what sort of design she likes best.
Whether or not you have decided to allow your partner the choice to choose her own engagement ring, we have a large variety of stunning rings available for sale now. Take a look at this gorgeous 3.68ct diamond solitaire or the more unusual 18ct white gold fancy yellow heart diamond cluster ring.
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